not much new here to post...it's in-service training at the moment and so i am back in thies for the month. just found out that i won't be living with my keur issa host family this time around which bites, but now i'll be living in thies so i get to do more stuff and have a bit more freedom...we'll see how it all goes.
so i've decided to dedicate this post to my family in diambo who are awesome and fabulous and i actually miss quite a bit. i left on tuesday so that i could make a garden at the regional house. there was kinda a garden already there so we first attempted to fix it up, but me and colleen (who lives about 20km from me) ran into not one but two snakes (gray in color....MAMBAS?!) and so decided to make our garden out of trash receptacles and coffee cans. i think it looks extremeley cute. now it just has to grow.
a bunch of us spent this past weekend in st. louis....and let me tell you, this city rocks. soo much fun, i even got to eat ice cream and steak in the same day. soo good. we stayed at a great little auberge for really cheap, swam at a pool and he beach all day, and just had a great time relaxing. i'm so happy that i live close enough to saint-louis where i can go for the weekend. this will definitely be a place i will go to again and again.
so to the real purpose of this post; i've decided to give you all a little more detail about my family so here goes. i live with about 30 other people in three compounds that open up into a area (the youtube video shows this a little better.) anyways, my immediate family is my father, his two wives, and their kids. plus i got an uncle, his wife and their kids, another uncle family and then a cousin and his family. okay, here goes...
sille mall: this is my host father. he is about 55 years old and spends most of the day in the fields. he's about 5'2'' and maybe 110. i feel like an ogre next to him. he doesn't talk a lot but i feel that i can talk to him about anything and he really enjoys the fact that i love our families cows.
banel wade: this is my tocora or namesake as well as my father's first wife. she is from a village about 11 km from diambo. because she is the first wife she runs the household and is consantly trying to make me sit and do nothing while everyone gets my water, etc for me. at first this really bothered me but now i realize that she really wants to take care of me and make sure that i go home well fed and happy. (don't worry i'm both).
hawa soh: this is my father's second wife and my favorite. she's from mauritania which i think is really cool. she let's me do what i want but still makes sure i am taken care of. she also is one of the few people who is willing to sit down and help me understand what's going on which is always appreciated.
binta mall: my 16 year old sister. very cool girl, is smart and hardwoking and loves asking me questions about america.
miiye mal: my 15 year old sister. she spends most of the time working in the fields or doing other chores but she is also really nice, although she is usually the one to put my brothers in line which involves hitting them.
gaycire mall: 12 year olf sister. she is the best cook in the family so i always love it when she makes lunch. she's quiet but will come listen to me if she isn't doing chores.
hamadel mall: my 11 year old brother. he is usually very quiet and spends the day making traps for animals and playing by the river.
moussa mall: 10 year old brother. he looks just like hamadel and follows him everywhere. he still blushes when i talk to him.
djibbi mall: 10 year old brother. he is kind of a bully in the family and like to beat up the other kids but he also does what he's told and makes sure everyone follows the rules.
penda mall: 9 year old sister. she's really little like her dad and reminds me of a gymnast. she is usually helping cook but also will sit and talk to me. she also usually directs me to someplace if i get lost.
demba mall: 7 year old brother. he's kind of a drama queen and a wimp but loves any game i invent for the kids to do. he also follows me around everywhere.
camou mall: 6 year old brother and the baby of the family. spoiled beyond belief but once he stops acting like a baby is a lot of fun to play with.
demba mall: my uncle. he is a farmer and is really funny and quiet. he's the uncle all the kids run to when they did something they should be punished for. he also thinks it's funny that i like the animals so much.
manne mall: my aunt who is the coolest woman...she is a proponent of "tough" love but can also be really affectionate. she also got really excited when i started doing my chores and called me senegalese.
sinthan mall: my 16 year old cousin. he is a typical teenager and likes to boss everyone around. i like to put him in his place which the family thinks is hilarious and he likes because he gete the attention.
fati mall: my 14 year old cousin. she is totally boy crazy which in turn drives me and all the other young kids crazy. but she's firey which i like.
alage mall: my 12 year old cousin. he makes the best tea and is really shy. i like to talk to him because i know he won't try to confuse me or screw me up.
hamady mall: my 10 year old cousin. he killed a giant lizard with a machete and they gutted, cooked and ate it. he's hard core, plus a wicked soccer player.
dadi mall: hamady's twin. she's super smart 9smartest in her family) and a huge tom boy which i love. she also puts up with nothing her brothers or cousin's dish out. she's one of my favorite.
seydou mall: 6 year old cousin. he has the voice of a little girl and loves to try to beat up anyone older than him. he also loves to tease me which i tease back then pick him up and carry him to the river and dunk him.
alage mall: my other uncle who i stayed with while my hut was being built. kinda of snoopy and patronizing, but dotes on his kids which is nice.
awa jaan; my aunt who works in a neighboring city as a tailor. she's not around a whole lot but i love the fact aht she's a working woman in the village.
banel mall: my 7 year old tocara and cousin. she's a sassy little girl who swims like a fish. i love having her around and she loves mimicking me.
ramata mall: my 3 year old cousin. she is kind of homely (looks like a tim burton character) but is really funny and adventurous. she also has her dad wrapped around her finger which i think is hilarious.
moussa mall: my oldest cousin. his father drowned about two months ago in the river which was a really intense and overswhelming experience. moussa is the town's imam or koranic teacher. he speaks pulaar, wolof, arabic, french and a little english and has the best sense of humor. he's by far my faovrite male in the village and i love spending afternoons at his house cracking jokes with him.
fati mall: my older sister and moussa's wife. she's also really small like her dad but she's sassy and affectionate. she also refused to ride in a car because the driver wouldn't give me a ride. she told her we were family and if i didn't ride she didn't. she then got two other people to get out of the car. i think she's awesome. she also loves her two boyus to death and still calls them bebe "baby" even though they are little monsters.
amadou mall: my four year old husband/cousin. he started following me around in the village and would greet me every morning with a huge hug so i started telling everyone that his is my husband and it has stuck. i think he has cerebral palsy, but it doesn't slow him down at all. he's a little punk in that he eggs people on, slaps his mom's butt and then runs away. he also runs to me if one of the older kids is going to hit him because he knows i'm safe territory. i'm also teaching him english phrases such as "what up homeslice, and to the batcave!" as an effort to keep me entertained. it works.
sille mall: my 2 year old cousin and amadou's little big brother. he's the same size as amadou and totally wails on him and takes him down whenever they wrestle. he's a gentle giant though and loves to cuddle. i've started calling him my second husband which cracks the village up.
so that my family...i think they're great and i'm glad i get to be a part of their's for two years. alright, computer time is almost gone...signing off...more to follow.
peace!
jaime
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